Dear Dr Fang, How are you? I am writing to ask for someabout how to help my 15-year-old son. At the moment, he refuses to do almost anything his mother and I ask him to do. He is our only child and we treat him very. Though his grandparents buy him many things, yet he is stillto them and often shouts at them. He alsoto spend time with us or do as we tell him. Recently, he has been refusing to do his homework, and instead insists onhis time listening to foreign music. I cannot understand that, and I don’t like it. Meanwhile, he spends too much time in Internet cafes, where he either plays gameschats on the Internet. He is wasting valuable time during thisperiod in his life! shall I do? I am worried about it.I keep allowing him to do what he wants, he may fail at school, or worse. How can I help my sonhurting our feelings? Best regards Liu Zhen